Incite 7/20/2010: Visiting Day
Back when I went to sleepaway camp as a kid I always looked forward to Visiting Day. Mostly for the food, because after a couple weeks of camp food anything my folks brought up was a big improvement. But I admit it was great to see the same families year after year (especially the family that brought enough KFC to feed the entire camp) and to enjoy a day of R&R with your own family before getting back to the serious business of camping. So I was really excited this past weekend when the shoe was on the other foot, and I got to be the parent visiting XX1 at her camp. First off I hadn’t seen the camp, so I had no context when I saw pictures of her doing this or that. But most of all, we were looking forward to seeing our oldest girl. She’s been gone 3 weeks now, and the Boss and I really missed her. I have to say I was very impressed with the camp. There were a ton of activities for pretty much everyone. Back in my day, we’d entertain ourselves with a ketchup cap playing a game called Skully. Now these kids have go-karts, an adventure course, a zipline (from a terrifying looking 50 foot perch), ATVs and dirt bikes, waterskiing, and a bunch of other stuff. In the arts center they had an iMac-based video production and editing rig (yes, XX1 starred in a short video with her group), ceramics (including their own wheels and kiln), digital photography, and tons of other stuff. For boys there was rocketry and woodworking (including tabletop lathes and jigsaws). Made me want to go back to camp. Don’t tell Rich and Adrian if I drop offline for couple weeks, okay? Everything was pretty clean and her bunk was well organized, as you can see from the picture. Just like her room at home…not! Obviously the counselors help out and make sure everything is tidy, but with the daily inspections and work wheel (to assign chores every day), she’s got to do her part of keeping things clean and orderly. Maybe we’ll even be able to keep that momentum when she returns home. Most of all, it was great to see our young girl maturing in front of our eyes. After only 3 weeks away, she is far more confident and sure of herself. It was great to see. Her counselors are from New Zealand and Mexico, so she’s gotten a view of other parts of the world and learned about other cultures, and is now excited to explore what the world has to offer. It’s been a transformative experience for her, and we couldn’t be happier. I really pushed to send her to camp as early as possible because I firmly believe kids have to learn to fend for themselves in the world without the ever-present influence of their folks. The only way to do that is away from home. Camp provides a safe environment for kids to figure out how to get along (in close quarters) with other kids, and to do activities they can’t at home. That was based on my experience, and I’m glad to see it’s happening for my daughter as well. In fact, XX2 will go next year (2 years younger than XX1 is now) and she couldn’t be more excited after visiting. But there’s more! An unforeseen benefit of camp accrues to us. Not just having one less kid to deal with over the summer – which definitely helps. But sending the kids to camp each summer will force us (well, really the Boss) to let go and get comfortable with the reality that at some point our kids will grow, leave the nest, and fly on their own. Many families don’t deal with this transition until college and it’s very disruptive and painful. In another 9 years we’ll be ready, because we are letting our kids fly every summer. And from where I sit, that’s a great thing. – Mike Photo credits: “XX1 bunk” originally uploaded by Mike Rothman Recent Securosis Posts Wow. Busy week on the blog. Nice. Pricing Cyber-Policies FireStarter: An Encrypted Value is Not a Token! 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