Incite 1/13/2016: Permitted
I’m not sure how it happened, but XX1 turned 15 in November and got her driver’s permit. Wait, what?!?! That little girl can now drive. Like, legally? WTF? Clearly it is now January, and I am still in shock that 15 years has passed by in the blink of an eye. Now it’s on me to teach her to drive. She’ll take a driver’s ed course in February, so that will help and give her some practical experience with someone who actually drives with teenagers for a living. Is that on the list of worst jobs? Second to elephant cage cleaner at the zoo, driving with inexperienced drivers seems like my version of hell on earth. Then I remembered back to when I learned to drive. My Dad had a ‘72 Bug for me that he drove around. He picked me up and drove me to the local town pool parking lot. He taught me how to balance the clutch (yes, it was a stick shift) and start, stop, drive in a straight line, and turn. I recall him being extraordinarily patient as I smoked the clutch and stalled out 10 times. But after a while I got the hang of it. Then he said, “OK Mike. Drive home.” WHAT? I was kind of in shock. It was maybe 3 miles to my house, but it was 3 miles of real road. Road with other drivers on it. I almost crapped my pants, but we got home in one piece. Dad would let me drive most places after that, even on the highway and on bridges. He remained incredibly patient, even when I stalled 10 times on a slight incline with about 50 cars behind me sitting on their horns. Yup, crapped my pants that time too. I remember that like it was yesterday, but it was 31 years ago. Damn. So before winter break I took XX1 out to the parking lot of the library. She got into the driver’s seat and I almost crapped my pants. You getting the recurring theme here? She had no idea what she was doing. I have an automatic transmission, so she didn’t have to worry about the clutch, but turning the car is a learned skill, and stopping without giving me whiplash was challenging for a little while. She did get the hang of it, but seeing her discomfort behind the wheel convinced me that my plan of having her drive home (like my Dad did to me) wouldn’t be a great idea. Neither for her self-esteem nor my blood pressure. She’ll get the hang of it, and I have to remember that she’s different than me and I’m a different teacher than my Dad. We’ll get her driving at her pace. After she takes the driver’s ed class I’ll have her start driving when she’s with me. Before we know it, she’ll have 25-30 hours behind the wheel. But I’m not taking any chances. I plan on sending her to an advanced driving school. My cousin sent me a link to this great program in NC called B.R.A.K.E.S, which provides a 4-hour defensive driving workshop specifically for teens. I’m also going to take her to a Skip Barber racing class or something similar, so she can learn how to really handle the car. Sure it’s expensive, but she’s important cargo, commanding a two-ton vehicle, so I want to make sure she’s prepared. But I have to understand this is a metaphor for the rest of her life. As parents we can prepare her to the best of our ability. Then we need to let her loose to have her own experiences and learn her lessons. She can count on our support through the inevitable ups and downs. My little girl is growing up. –Mike Photo credit: “International Driving Permit” from Tony Webster The fine folks at the RSA Conference posted the talk Jennifer Minella and I did on mindfulness at the 2014 conference. You can check it out on YouTube. Take an hour. Your emails, alerts, and Twitter timeline will be there when you get back. Securosis Firestarter Have you checked out our new video podcast? Rich, Adrian, and Mike get into a Google Hangout and… hang out. We talk a bit about security as well. We try to keep these to 15 minutes or less, and usually fail. 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SIEM Kung Fu Fundamentals Building a Threat Intelligence Program Success and Sharing Using TI Gathering TI Introduction Network Security Gateway Evolution Introduction Recently Published Papers Threat Detection Evolution Building Security into DevOps Pragmatic Security for Cloud and Hybrid Networks EMV Migration and the Changing Payments Landscape Applied Threat Intelligence Endpoint Defense: Essential Practices Cracking the Confusion: Encryption & Tokenization for Data Centers, Servers & Applications Security and Privacy on the Encrypted Network Monitoring the Hybrid Cloud Best Practices for AWS Security The Future of Security Incite 4 U Security as a business problem: The more things change, the more they stay the same. NetworkWorld’s Overcoming stubborn execs for security sake took me back to 2006, right before I wrote the Pragmatic CSO. Senior management doesn’t get it? Yup. Mid-managers want to circumvent the rules? Yup. On and on it goes, and we run on the hamster wheel for