Incite 2/3/2016: Courage
A few weeks ago I spoke about dealing with the inevitable changes of life and setting sail on the SS Uncertainty to whatever is next. It’s very easy to talk about changes and moving forward, but it’s actually pretty hard to do. When moving through a transformation, you not only have to accept the great unknown of the future, but you also need to grapple with what society expects you to do. We’ve all been programmed since a very early age to adhere to cultural norms or suffer the consequences. Those consequences may be minor, like having your friends and family think you’re an idiot. Or decisions could result in very major consequences, like being ostracized from your community, or even death in some areas of the world. In my culture in the US, it’s expected that a majority of people should meander through their lives; with their 2.2 kids, their dog, and their white picket fence, which is great for some folks. But when you don’t fit into that very easy and simple box, moving forward along a less conventional path requires significant courage. I recently went skiing for the first time in about 20 years. Being a ski n00b, I invested in two half-day lessons – it would have been inconvenient to ski right off the mountain. The first instructor was an interesting guy in his 60’s, a US Air Force helicopter pilot who retired and has been teaching skiing for the past 25 years. His seemingly conventional path worked for him – he seemed very happy, especially with the artificial knee that allowed him to ski a bit more aggressively. But my instructor on the second day was very interesting. We got a chance to chat quite a bit on the lifts, and I learned that a few years ago he was studying to be a physician’s assistant. He started as an orderly in a hospital and climbed the ranks until it made sense for him to go to school and get a more formal education. So he took his tests and applied and got into a few programs. Then he didn’t go. Something didn’t feel right. It wasn’t the amount of work – he’d been working since he was little. It wasn’t really fear – he knew he could do the job. It was that he didn’t have passion for a medical career. He was passionate about skiing. He’d been teaching since he was 16, and that’s what he loved to do. So he sold a bunch of his stuff, minimized his lifestyle, and has been teaching skiing for the past 7 years. He said initially his Mom was pretty hard on him about the decision. But as she (and the rest of his family) realized how happy and fulfilled he is, they became OK with his unconventional path. Now that is courage. But he said something to me as we were about to unload from the lift for the last run of the day. “Mike, this isn’t work for me. I happened to get paid, but I just love teaching and skiing, so it doesn’t feel like a job.” It was inspiring because we all have days when we know we aren’t doing what we’re passionate about. If there are too many of those days, it’s time to make changes. Changes require courage, especially if the path you want to follow doesn’t fit into the typical playbook. But it’s your life, not theirs. So climb aboard the SS Uncertainty (with me) and embark on a wild and strange adventure. We get a short amount of time on this Earth – make the most of it. I know I’m trying to do just that. Editors note: despite Mike’s post on courage, he declined my invitation to go ski Devil’s Crotch when we are out in Colorado. Just saying. -rich –Mike Photo credit: “Courage” from bfick It’s that time of year again! The 8th annual Disaster Recovery Breakfast will once again happen at the RSA Conference. Thursday morning, March 3 from 8 – 11 at Jillians. Check out the invite or just email us at rsvp (at) securosis.com to make sure we have an accurate count. The fine folks at the RSA Conference posted the talk Jennifer Minella and I did on mindfulness at the 2014 conference. You can check it out on YouTube. Take an hour. Your emails, alerts, and Twitter timeline will be there when you get back. Securosis Firestarter Have you checked out our video podcast? Rich, Adrian, and Mike get into a Google Hangout and… hang out. We talk a bit about security as well. We try to keep these to 15 minutes or less, and usually fail. Dec 8 – 2015 Wrap Up and 2016 Non-Predictions Nov 16 – The Blame Game Nov 3 – Get Your Marshmallows Oct 19 – re:Invent Yourself (or else) Aug 12 – Karma July 13 – Living with the OPM Hack May 26 – We Don’t Know Sh–. You Don’t Know Sh– May 4 – RSAC wrap-up. Same as it ever was. March 31 – Using RSA March 16 – Cyber Cash Cow March 2 – Cyber vs. Terror (yeah, we went there) February 16 – Cyber!!! February 9 – It’s Not My Fault! January 26 – 2015 Trends January 15 – Toddler Heavy Research We are back at work on a variety of blog series, so here is a list of the research currently underway. Remember you can get our Heavy Feed via RSS, with our content in all its unabridged glory. And you can get all our research papers too. Securing Hadoop Architectural Security Issues Architecture and Composition Security Recommendations for NoSQL platforms SIEM Kung Fu Fundamentals Building a Threat Intelligence Program Success and Sharing Using TI Gathering TI Introduction Recently Published Papers Threat Detection Evolution Building Security into DevOps Pragmatic Security for Cloud and Hybrid Networks EMV Migration and the Changing Payments Landscape Applied Threat Intelligence Endpoint Defense: Essential Practices Cracking the Confusion: Encryption & Tokenization for Data Centers, Servers & Applications Security and Privacy on the Encrypted Network Monitoring the Hybrid Cloud Best Practices for AWS Security * The Future of Security Incite 4 U Evolution visually: Wade Baker posted a really awesome