Incite 11/13/2013: Bully
When you really see the underbelly of something, it is rarely pretty. The NFL is no different. Grown men are paid millions of dollars a year to display unbridled aggression, toughness, and competitiveness. That sounds like a pretty Darwinian environment, where the strong prey on the weak. And it is given what we have seen over the last few weeks, as behavior in the Miami Dolphins locker room comes to light. It is counterintuitive to think of a 320-pound offensive lineman being bullied by anyone. You hear about fights on the field and in the locker room as these alpha males all look to establish position within the pride. But how are the bullies in the Dolphins locker room any different than the petty mean girls and boys you had to deal with in high school? They aren’t. If you take a step back, a bully is always compensating for some kind of self-perceived inadequacy that forces him or her to act out. Small people (even if they weigh over 300+ pounds) make themselves feel bigger by making others feel smaller. So the first question is whether the behavior is acceptable. I think everyone can agree racial epithets have no place in today’s society. But what about the other tactics, such as mind games and intentionally excluding a fellow player from activities? I’m not sure that kind of hazing would normally be a huge deal, but combined with an environment of racial insensitivity, it is probably crossing the line as well. What’s more surprising is that no one stepped up and said that behavior was no bueno. Bullies prey on folks, because folks who aren’t directly targeted don’t stand up and make clear what is acceptable and what isn’t. But that has happened since the beginning of time. No one want to stand up for what’s right, so folks just watch catastrophic events happen. Maybe this will be a catalyst to change the culture. There is nothing the NFL hates more than bad publicity. So things will change. Every other team in the NFL made statements about how their work environments are not like that. No one wants to be singled out as a bully or a bigot. Not when they have potential endorsement deals riding on their public image. Like most other changes, some old timers will resist. Others will adapt because they need to. And with the real-time nature of today’s media, and rampant leaks within every organization, it is hard to see this kind of behavior happening again. I guess I can’t understand why players who call themselves brothers would treat each other so badly. Of course you beat up your little brother(s) when you are 10. But if you are still treating your siblings shabbily as an adults, you need some help. Maybe I am getting a bit judgmental, especially considering that I have never worked in an NFL locker room, so I can’t even pretend to understand the mindset. But I do know a bit about dealing with people. One of the key tenets of a functional and successful organization is to manage people in an individual fashion. A guy may be 320 pounds, an athletic freak, and capable of serious violence when the ball is snapped, but that doesn’t mean he wants to get called names or fight a teammate to prove his worth. I learned the importance of managing people individually early in my career, mostly because it worked. This management philosophy is masterfully explained in First, Break All the Rules, which shows how important corporate performance is for keeping happy employees who do what they love every day with people they care about. Clearly someone in Miami didn’t get the memo. And you have to wonder what kind of player Jonathan Martin could be if he worked in a place where he didn’t feel singled out and persecuted, so he could focus on the task at hand: his blocking assignment for each play. Not whether he was going to get jumped in the parking lot. 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