As we get into late May it is getting to be summer in the ATL. The kids finish up school this week, the pools open, and my standard work attire consists of shorts, a T-shirt, and flip flops. The Boss is frantically getting the kids ready for camp, and we have a few family trips planned before they leave. But first things first – this is the one week a year I won’t travel. It’s dance recital week. I used to be very diligent about not missing well check-ups with the pediatrician. But as the kids get older, especially the girls, it has become a bit awkward for me to be in the room. That’s a bit of a bummer, but I understand. Recitals are something else. I’m sure I have mentioned it before, but the girls don’t dance in the most competitive studio. There is no Black Swan action here. No anorexic high schoolers trying to audition for the Bolshoi. It’s a bunch of girls (and a few brave boys) with a passion for dance, which shows during recitals. So I gladly reserve a week at home, regardless of how loudly duty calls, and I’ll be watching recitals on Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday nights. This has been an annual ritual for at least 8 years, and they all blur together. Lots of sparkles, sequins, and hair buns. Some ballet, modern, contemporary, tap, and even hip-hop. Each night they do maybe 25 routines. Seeing the 4 and 5 years olds go on stage brings back great memories. Seeing the seniors do their solos is a glimpse into the future. The studio just started a program with special needs kids, and it’s uplifting to see them get up on stage and dance as well. Limitations only exist in our minds, so it’s great to see kids up there held back by nothing but their own courage. Monday night’s show featured XX2 in 6 routines. She’s in a very large group, so sometimes it’s hard to see her. But she shines up on the stage like a supernova. With a featured spot in one of the routines, you could see the performer in her. The artist. I have no idea what her future holds but she’ll be in front of people in some way, shape, or form. She’s just too comfortable on stage to not pursue that path. Having gone for so many years, I have gained perspective into how the dancers grow – both physically and skills. The munchies (little girls) have no idea what’s going on. They wave to the crowd and muddle through the routine, and they just have a lot of fun. At some point when they are no longer little girls, we watch the routines and go holy crap, these kids can dance. That moment happened for me this year when I got to the studio a little early a few weeks back and saw XX1 practicing her modern dance routine. The last third of the routine I saw was beautiful. Their movements were graceful and fluid. They were in their element. It was all I could do not to tear up right there, seeing my girl and her friends blossom into dancers right in front of my eyes. I won’t see that routine live until Tuesday night (I write the Incite during the day Tuesday). I can’t wait. They say parents enjoy the accomplishments of their kids a lot more than their own. I’m working on recognizing my achievements, but there is nothing like seeing your kids having fun, doing something they are passionate about. So I’ll keep going to the recitals (and tennis matches and lax games) as long as they play and perform. And for those couple hours time will stop. As it should. –Mike Photo credit: “Melbourne Recital Centre” originally uploaded by Wojtek Gurak The fine folks at the RSA Conference posted the talk Jennifer Minella and I did on mindfulness at the conference this year. You can check it out on YouTube. Take an hour and check it out. Your emails, alerts, and Twitter timeline will all be there when you get back. Securosis Firestarter Have you checked out our new video podcast? Rich, Adrian, and Mike get into a Google Hangout and.. hang out. We talk a bit about security as well. We try to keep these to 15 minutes or less, and usually fail. May 19 – Wanted Posters and SleepyCon May 12 – Another 3 for 5: McAfee/OSVDB, XP Not Dead, CEO head rolling May 5 – There Is No SecDevOps April 28 – The Verizon DBIR April 14 – Three for Five March 24 – The End of Full Disclosure March 19 – An Irish Wake March 11 – RSA Postmortem Feb 21 – Happy Hour – RSA 2014 Feb 17 – Payment Madness 2014 RSA Conference Guide In case any of you missed it, we published our fifth RSA Conference Guide back in February. Yes, we do mention the conference a bit, but it’s really our ideas about how security will shake out in 2014. You can get the full guide with all the memes you can eat. Heavy Research We are back at work on a variety of blog series, so here is a list of the research currently underway. Remember you can get our Heavy Feed via RSS, with our content in all its unabridged glory. And you can get all our research papers too. Understanding Role-based Access Control Advanced Concepts Introduction NoSQL Security 2.0 Understanding NoSQL Platforms Introduction Newly Published Papers Advanced Endpoint and Server Protection Defending Against Network-based DDoS Attacks Reducing Attack Surface with Application Control Leveraging Threat Intelligence in Security Monitoring The Future of Security Security Management 2.5: Replacing Your SIEM Yet? Defending Data on iOS 7 Eliminating Surprises with Security Assurance and Testing Incite 4 U It didn’t take long to commoditize threat intelligence: We have been writing for a while about threat intelligence – most recently about how TI fits into the security monitoring process. Next up on our research plans is a look at how TI can be leveraged in incident response