You are constantly changing. We all are. You live, you learn, you adapt, you change. It seems that if you pay attention, every 7-9 years or so you realize you hardly recognize the person looking back at you from the mirror. Sometimes the changes are very positive. Other times a cycle is not as favorable. That’s part of the experience. Yet many people don’t think anything changes. They expect the same person year after year.
I am a case in point. I have owned my anger issues from growing up and my early adulthood. They resulted in a number of failed jobs and relationships. It wasn’t until I had to face the reality that my kids would grow up in fear of me that I decided to change. It wasn’t easy, but I have been working at it diligently for the past 8 years, and at this point I really don’t get angry very often.
But lots of folks still see my grumpy persona, even though I’m not grumpy. For example I was briefing a new company a few weeks ago. We went through their pitch, and I provided some feedback. Some of it was hard for them to hear because their story needed a lot of work. At some point during the discussion, the CEO said, “You’re not so mean.” Uh, what? It turns out the PR handlers had prepared them for some kind of troll under the bridge waiting to chew their heads off.
At one point I probably was that troll. I would say inflammatory things and be disagreeable because I didn’t understand my own anger. Belittling others made me feel better. I was not about helping the other person, I was about my own issues. I convinced myself that being a douche was a better way to get my message across. That approach was definitely more memorable, but not in a positive way. So as I changed my approach to business changed as well. Most folks appreciate the kinder Incite I provide. Others miss crankypants, but that’s probably because they are pretty cranky themselves and they wanted someone to commiserate over their miserable existence.
What’s funny is that when I meet new people, they have no idea about my old curmudgeon persona. So they are very surprised when someone tells a story about me being a prick back in the day. That kind of story is inconsistent with what they see. Some folks would get offended by hearing those stories, but I like them. It just underscores how years of work have yielded results.
Some folks have a hard time letting go of who they thought you were, even as you change. You shed your skin and took a different shape, but all they can see is the old persona. But when you don’t want to wear that persona anymore, those folks tend to move out of your life. They need to go because don’t support your growth. They hold on to the old.
But don’t fret. New people come in. Ones who aren’t bound by who you used to be – who can appreciate who you are now. And those are the kinds of folks you should be spending time with.
Photo credit: “Snake Skin” originally uploaded by James Lee
The fine folks at the RSA Conference posted the talk Jennifer Minella and I did on mindfulness at the 2014 conference. You can check it out on YouTube. Take an hour and check it out. Your emails, alerts and Twitter timeline will be there when you get back.
Have you checked out our new video podcast? Rich, Adrian, and Mike get into a Google Hangout and.. hang out. We talk a bit about security as well. We try to keep these to 15 minutes or less, and usually fail.
- January 26 – 2015 Trends
- January 15 – Toddler
- December 18 – Predicting the Past
- November 25 – Numbness
- October 27 – It’s All in the Cloud
- October 6 – Hulk Bash
- September 16 – Apple Pay
- August 18 – You Can’t Handle the Gartner
- July 22 – Hacker Summer Camp
- July 14 – China and Career Advancement
- June 30 – G Who Shall Not Be Named
We are back at work on a variety of blog series, so here is a list of the research currently underway. Remember you can get our Heavy Feed via RSS, with our content in all its unabridged glory. And you can get all our research papers too.
Applied Threat Intelligence
Network Security Gateway Evolution
Security and Privacy on the Encrypted Network
Newly Published Papers
- Monitoring the Hybrid Cloud
- Best Practices for AWS Security
- Securing Enterprise Applications
- Secure Agile Development
- Trends in Data Centric Security
- Leveraging Threat Intelligence in Incident Response/Management
- The Security Pro’s Guide to Cloud File Storage and Collaboration
- The 2015 Endpoint and Mobile Security Buyer’s Guide
- Advanced Endpoint and Server Protection
- The Future of Security
Incite 4 U
- Click. Click. Boom! I did an interview last week where I said the greatest security risk of the Internet of Things is letting it distract you from all of the other more immediate security risks you face. But the only reason that is even remotely accurate is because I don’t include industrial control systems, multifunction printers, or other more traditional ‘things’ in the IoT. But if you do count everything connected to the Internet, some real problems pop up. Take the fuel gauge vulnerability just released by H D Moore/Rapid 7. Scan the Internet, find hundreds of vulnerable gas stations, all of which could cause real-world kinetic-style problems. The answer always comes back to security basics: know the risk, compartmentalize, update devices, etc. Some manufacturers are responsible, others not so much, and as a security pro it is worth factoring this reality into your risk profile. You know, like, “lightbulb risk: low… tank with tons of explosive liquid: high”. – RM
- How fast is a fast enough response? Richard Bejtlich asks a age-old question. How quickly should incidents be responded to? When he ran a response team the mandate was detection and mitigation in less than an hour. And this was a huge company, staffed to meet that service level. They had processes and tools to provide that kind of response. The fact is you want to be able to respond as quickly as you are staffed. If you have 2 people and a lot of attack surface, it may not be realistic to respond in an hour. If senior management is okay with that, who are you to argue? But that’s not my pet peeve. It’s the folks who think they need to buy real-time alerts when they aren’t staffed to investigate and remediate. If you have a queue of stuff to validate from your security monitors, then getting more alerts faster doesn’t solve any problems. It only exacerbates them. So make sure your tools are aligned with your processes, which are aligned with your staffing level and expertise. Or see your alerts fall on the floor, whether you are a target or not. – MR
- Positive reviews: What do you do if you think the software you’re using might have been compromised by hostile third parties? You could review the source code to see if it’s clean. It’s openness that encouraged enterprises to trust non-commercial products, right? But what if it’s a huge commercial distribution, and not open source? If you are talking about Microsoft’s or Apple’s OS code, not only is it extremely tough (like, impossible) to get access, but any effort to review the code would be monstrous and not feasible. In what I believe is unprecedented access, China has gotten the okay to search Apple’s software for back doors to give them confidence that no foreign power has manipulated the code. But this won’t be limited to code – it includes an investigation of build and delivery processes as well, to ensure that substitutions don’t occur along the way. A likely – and very good – outcome for Apple (given the amount of business they do in China), and the resulting decreased pressure from various governments to insert backdoors into the software. – AL
- Sec your aaS: One weird part of our business that has cropped up in the past year is working more with SaaS companies who actually care about security. Some big names, many smaller ones, all realizing they are a giant target for every attacker. But I’d have to say these SaaS providers are the minority. Most just don’t have money in the early stages (when it’s most important to build in security) to drop the cash for someone like me to walk in the door. So I enjoyed seeing Bessemer Venture Partners publish a startup security guide. More VCs and funds should provide this kind of support, because their investment goes poof if their companies suffer a major data loss. Or, you know, hire us to do it. – RM
- You fix it: It’s shocking that Chip and PIN cards, a technology proven to drastically reduce fraud rates in dozens of other countries, have not been widely adopted in the US. But it’s really sad when the US government beats the banks to market: The US is rolling out Chip and PIN cards for all federal employees this year to promote EMV compliant cards and usage in the US. Chips alleviate card cloning attacks and PINs thwart use of stolen cards. In the EU adoption of Chip and PIN has virtually eliminated card-present fraud. But the people who would benefit the most – banks – don’t bear the costs of deploying and servicing Chip and PIN; issuers and merchants do. So each party acts in its own best interest. Leading by example is great, but if the US government wanted to really promote Chip and PIN, they would help broker (or mandate) a deal among these stakeholders to fix the systemic problem. – AL
- Same problem. Different technology… During his day job as a Gartner analyst, Anton gets the same questions over and over again. Both Rich and I know that situation very well. He posted about folks now asking for security analytics, but really wonders whether they just want a SIEM that works. That is actually the wrong question. What customers want are security alerts that help them do their jobs. If their SIEM provided it they wouldn’t be looking at shiny new technologies like big data security analytics and other buzzword-friendly new products. Customers don’t care what you call it, they care about outcomes – which is that they have no idea which alerts matter. But that’s Vendor 101: if the existing technology doesn’t solve the problem, rename the category and sell hope to customers all over again. And the beat goes on. Now back on my anti-cynicism meds. – MR